I am love and therefore I am unique

This is a big concept to understand and with it comes a huge responsibility. One that all can not take or are even willing to take. I have been doing my soul searching for years and only now I start to truly understand the concept of "I am love and therefore I am unique" and the power behind it.

We have been living in a world of fear and hatred, competition and judgement, under the control of something or someone outside of us and we have totally forgotten our own uniqueness. Our own responsibility when it comes to the happenings in this world. Fear (= judgement, being a victim, anger, criticism, wars and so on) is a powerful weapon when it comes to dividing people and getting us fighting against each other. Think about this: every thought, every action you make, is a contribution to this world. I say it once more: every thought, every action you make, is a contribution to this world. It is very powerful, don't you think? The time has come for us to remember this. The time has come that we all remember that "I am love". 

So lets start with love. I am love. Love is in me. I don't have to look for it outside of me. No one can not bring me love or give me love. Something and someone can REFLECT the amount of self love that I have for myself, but even if being alone in this world, I would still have love since "I am love". 

What does this mean to me? It means I listen. I turn inside and listen. What do I listen? Love talking, my heart that is. Only she knows what is best for me. So I close my ears and eyes from everything that others say about food, about alcohol, about men, about clothes, about drinks, about religion, about earth, about people. About everything.

Only my heart (I) can truly know and say if I need to eat meat or veggies today. Only I can know how make up feels on my face and if it is good for my skin. Only my body can say what vitamins I need or do I need any. Only my skin knows what kind of clothes feel good on it. Only I can say with whom I feel comfortable being with. Only I can know when I want to have sex and with who. Only I can decide if I divide people into different races. I am the one making the choice to resist or accept something I don't like. This is all on me. Only me. 

When I start to listen, I find my truth. The truth that was buried under everything that was thought to me since I was a little girl. Buried under this belief that if I don't do as I am told and be kind enough, no one will like me, I will not be accepted, I will not be loved.

But when I stop, when I have the courage to start to listen, I start to remember. I start to remember the truth. That "I am love". That love actually never abandoned me, because it never left! And that I have always been loved and accepted by it. That I am "love in action" with everything I do and think.

And this is the responsibility part. It is huge! No more blaming others for how I feel. No more accusing someone else about my feelings, my life or my choices, my words, my actions or my behavior. No more expecting someone to come and save me. No more pushing my thoughts or beliefs to anyone , because I know that what is true for me, might not be true to someone else. No more need to be right, because I know that what is right for me, might not be right for someone else. No more giving advice, because I know that the one who needs them, will ask for them. No more wanting to change anyone, because I now know that we are all unique. And this is the responsibility. This is the true respect. And as I said, this is huge and takes a lot of courage. 

But once you are willing to take this leap deep inside of you, you are heading for a adventure of your life! You are on your way to the true freedom. Because the love that I am talking about is something totally different then what we have been learned about love. This love is Universal, it is very powerful and very beautiful. It does not have any conditions, it does not ask for anything, it does not judge you in any way. It just is and accepts you. All of you. And as I am love, so are you and now we come to this unique part. 

Uniqueness is not only the differences we see in our physical outlook, but also the differences we have inside. And without listening to my heart, it is impossible for me to know what is my uniqueness. What is good for me and what is not. What I feel is right and what is not. Listening is one thing, but since we are in a human journey, I also have to try different things to see and feel, what is right for me. Some stick, some don't. And when I truly start to listen to myself, I start to make better choices that are based on self love. Based on the uniqueness of me as an individual. 

Love don't judge. Nothing or no one. It just is and everything I do, is okey for it. What someone is doing, it is none of my business. None. Only I am. ONLY I AM! And as long as I am looking outside of myself and not inside of me, I am co-creating this world of fear. I am not remembering the fact that I am love and that love does not judge. We are here to learn more about ourselves through others. We truly are all sisters and brothers, helping each other in this game called life. Red blood bleeds no matter who and what colored human you kill. 

So in order for something to change in this world, I start from me. And only me. I dig in! I listen! I take responsibility for myself. I make the changes that I have to make. In order to find my own truth. In order to live the life of my dreams. I read, listen, go to seminars or trainings, talk to my friends, couches, teachers, I do yoga or what ever I feel is necessary for me to get the help that I need. And eventually I will be bold enough and I will hear my heart loud enough, to let go of all those books and courses that served me so well. I can let them go, because my inner truth is having a solid ground, a deeper knowing and a voice strong enough. 

Because all is already inside of me. Everything. I know already. I have all the wisdom and knowledge that I think only others have. I just forgot it under the business and pleasing others. And finally I understand this powerful phrase of "I am love and therefore unique".